How Much to Spend on Grandchildren During the Holidays?

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OppLoans recently conducted a survey on how much the average grandparent spends on a grandchild during the holidays. The survey,  1700 respondents, averaged out $218 per grandchild. Younger grandparents spent more, $312, than older grandparent, $179. See the infographic below for details.

Those numbers seem reasonable, but let's fact-check.

Does It Add Up?

A question you should always ask when presented with a survey is who is responding to the survey? OppLoans surveyed their clients who are seeking payday loans. On the other hand, GoBankingRates did a similar survey across a broader range of economic groups and found total planned holiday spending of 65+ is $2,388, with the older generation spending more than the younger generations.

Do the numbers add up? If half of the GoBankingRates stated 65+ spending goes to grandchildren, $1194, and OppLoans' per grandchild spending is correct, $218, that means the average grandparent has 5.5 grandchildren. Lo and bold, the average number of grandchildren grandparents have is 5 to 6, right in the middle.

Courtesy of OppLoans

Grandparent Spending Observations

A few observations we can draw from the survey, again assuming the accuracy, is:

  • Oklahoma grandparent spent the most at $339 per grandchild.
  • Nebraska grandparent spent the least at $93 per grandchild.
  • Grandfathers spend more than grandmothers, $244 vs $202.

How Much Should I Spend on My Grandchildren?

This is a very personal question and should be determined by how much you can afford, the parent's wishes, and the purpose of the giving. I personally like my parents to give fewer gifts to my daughter. Beyond the unnecessary spending of money, I prefer more meaningful gifts, like a new chapter book I can read with her, rather than a pile of LOL dolls that will be forgotten within a week.

How much do you plan on spending on your grandchild or expect your parents to spend on your children?


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